When Our Desires Become Our Judgment
- Heather Edmund
- 20 hours ago
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One of the sobering truths of Scripture is this: if we persist in rejecting God, He may eventually give us exactly what we want—even when what we want leads to our own destruction. What begins as desire can end as judgment.
The Bible warns us that God does not force Himself on anyone. He calls, convicts, and extends mercy, but when people repeatedly harden their hearts, He may allow them to walk fully into the consequences of their rebellion. This is not because God is cruel, but because He is just. Over and over, we see a pattern: persistent sin leads to God “giving them over” to what they demand.
Let’s look at five biblical examples of this principle.
1. God Hardened Pharaoh’s Heart (Exodus 9:12)
“But the Lord hardened Pharaoh’s heart and he would not listen to Moses and Aaron, just as the Lord had said to Moses.”
The story of Pharaoh is a clear example of human stubbornness meeting divine judgment. Pharaoh repeatedly hardened his own heart (Exodus 5:2; 7:13–14, 22; 8:15, 19, 32; 9:7). After countless chances, God eventually hardening Pharaoh heart further so he would serve as an example for generations (Exodus 9:16; Proverbs 29:1).
Pharaoh’s repeated defiance shows us that mercy has an expiration date. When God’s voice is ignored long enough, the opportunity to repent may be lost.
2. God Gave Them Over to a Depraved Mind (Romans 1:24–28)
“God gave them over to shameful lusts…” (Romans 1:26)
Paul explains that when people reject the knowledge of God, He allows them to pursue their sinful desires fully. Their passions, once unchecked, degrade them spiritually and physically. Three times in Romans 1, Paul repeats the phrase: “God gave them over.”
This isn’t what God desires for anyone—but He will not stop people from choosing sin if they continually refuse His truth.
3. God Sends a Strong Delusion (2 Thessalonians 2:10–12)
“For this reason God sends them a powerful delusion so that they will believe the lie.”
Here we see the terrifying result of rejecting the gospel. Those who refuse to love the truth are given over to deception. In other words, if people persist in delighting in wickedness, God will allow them to be blinded by lies. Judgment comes not just as punishment, but as the inability to recognize truth.
4. Hardened by Prophecy (Isaiah 6:9–10)
“Make the heart of this people calloused; make their ears dull and close their eyes…”
Isaiah’s mission itself was a form of judgment: his preaching would actually harden the hearts of those already set against God. The Word of God, when resisted, can have this effect—softening some hearts while hardening others.
5. God Gave Them Over to Their Own Desires (Psalm 81:11–12)
“So I gave them over to their stubborn hearts to follow their own devices.”
Sometimes judgment is simply this: God steps back and lets us have what we’ve been demanding. Israel wanted their way more than God’s way, so He allowed them to chase after their stubbornness—and reap the results.
We see this also when Israel demanded meat in the wilderness. God gave them quail in abundance, but it came with judgment (Numbers 11:31–34). They received what they craved, but it poisoned them.
Crossing the Point of No Return
All of these passages point to one sobering truth: there comes a time when continual rejection of God crosses into irreversible judgment. Pharaoh is the classic example—his repeated “no” to God became his final “no.” Repentance is a gift, and when we harden ourselves against it too often, the opportunity may be withdrawn (Romans 1:28; Proverbs 29:1).
A Call to Respond Today
God’s heart is not to abandon us but to save us. Yet His Word warns us not to test His patience.
“Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts.” (Hebrews 3:15)
When God convicts us, it is mercy. When He calls us to turn, it is love. But when we continually resist, our very desires can become our judgment.
The question for us is simple: will we yield to God’s voice today—or will we insist on our own way until it destroys us?
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