Being single is a privilege, not a punishment, because…
You’re learning to love yourself before sharing space because if you don’t, you’ll beg for love instead of choosing it, tolerate disrespect just to avoid being alone, and turn relationships into rescue missions instead of partnerships. Unhealed wounds don’t pick what’s healthy — they pick what feels familiar. When you haven’t learned self-love, love becomes dependence, not freedom, and you expect someone else to fill what only healing can fix. But when you do love yourself, you bring value, not a void. You stop asking, “Who will complete me?” and start asking, “Who will complement me?” That’s why this season matters — because if you don’t heal first, you’ll bleed on someone who didn’t cut you.
"And if you want to go deeper into this, I wrote a book called It’s OK To Be Single. It’s there if you need it.”